INTERVIEW WITH A PHONE SEX WORKER

INTERVIEW WITH A PHONE SEX WORKER

By admin / September 9, 2018

My Interview with a Phone Sex Worker.

How long have you been a sex phone worker?

I have been working with a company professionally for the last 5 months, however i have also spent extensive time over the years working both personally and for a friend who was in the business some years ago.

What has been your most interesting phone client experience? Tell all!

I find many of my callers interesting as i have a love of sexology and i find human sexuality both intriguing, complex and fascinating.However one client that comes to mind is a man in his early 50’s that called the line first to ask if i was comfortable discussing bdsm and male on male subject matter. I assured him i am open and approachable to all content matter and that i do not judge a person due to their sexual orientation or fetish (lets face it we all have a freaky side) lol.He then hung up and called again. With a very articulate and professional mannerism he quite openly discussed this “new” sexual world and life he had found for himself as a Submissive Slave to a male Dominant Master. This is not something he could divulge to family, friends or coworkers. He stated he worked in a professional industry and something like this would be touted upon as well as ruin his career. Family and friends have always known him to be heterosexual and in his mind he still is. However this new found curiosity and lifestyle he had discovered had developed into a respectful, trusted relationship with his Master and in his words gave him “sexual liberation and freedom”.He enjoys being used as his Masters “fuck toy” and feels rewarded by the pleasure it brings both himself and his Dominant partner. Even in times of sexual humility he explained for him this was freedom from authoritative control something he has to maintain in his day to day life. A bit like taking your work boots off after having them confined at the end of a long tiring day at work. I found this client to be exceptionally fascinating due to his intellectual raw and unfiltered converse.Not all clients are looking for a blow and go.

How long do you see yourself doing this as your chosen profession?

If i had my way it would be a full time career lol

Is this your only job and if not, what else do you do for work?

My main occupation is a support worker in the community. I have done this for almost 15 years and have felt rewarded in what i do. However i have had a deep desire for quite a few years to pursue my true interest and passion as mentioned earlier. I am in the early stages of setting up my own business with the hope and outlook of this becoming my long term career orientation and professional advancement within the adult industry spectrum. 

Who is your most memorable client and why?

Lol…i have a few.I did once have a man get busted by his gf/wife whilst we were on a call. She thought he was having an affair and they were having this almighty argument meanwhile he never hung the phone up and  im still on the line. I have to admit i did feel awkward while this was occurring. When he came back to the phone he apologised as to what just happened and asked if it would be ok to call me again. The irony of that situation was this mans fantasy was focused all around his wife. He didn’t feel he could share this with her as he felt he would be rejected and it would change the nature of their relationship.
On another note I have a man who rings my line regularly and religiously. He will spend up to 3 hours and more not once but a couple of times per week, taking up the line so no one else can ring the line to take my time. He spends considerable amounts of dollars doing so. He is also a professional client in the building trade. When you spend that kind of time on the phone to someone regularly it is only natural you build a rapport. Phone sex work is just like meeting someone socially, if the click is not there it is a short lived experience. That click determines the rapport you build.
However it is important to keep the professional boundaries in check. He on many occasions has offered to buy me gifts, pay for flights to meet him, hotels, dinner and offers high amount of dollars to purchase under garments etc. Although these offers can be tempting the reality is this is business not reality. I just enjoy the ride.

I also had a caller who would ring quite regularly stating he was of Asian descent, wearing a pink tutu, matching bra and enjoyed being insulted and humiliated due to the colour of his skin. 
I’ve had people with disabilities, those living in remote locations just wanting conversation, men who’s wives give them an allowance to use on the chatline, many different races, professional backgrounds, diverse sexual orientations, couples and single women also as clients. It is most defiantly not a cliched market. They are all memorable in their own unique ways.

What has been your most skin crawling experience with the phone service and why?

I guess i would have to say those callers pushing the taboo boundaries and extremes alike. Yes occasionally you will get a caller looking for barely legal and animal content fantasy talk but they are usually weeded out and terminated early in conversation. However there are two that significantly come to mind. The first being a caller who’s fantasy started out fairly understated. I was the conservative well dressed lady by day and his stiletto wearing submissive kinky whore by night. He was the unassuming Dominant Master who’s adoration for his submissive would become one of twisted ownership. His fantasy would involve him being the high end provider and controller of my every need in a perverted and somewhat distorted loving nature.  He would often say throughout the role play “you do know how much I love you, don’t you”.Eventually this obscure fantasy involved my character being used and abused by many different men on a monthly basis as a show of love and commitment to him. That did not end when he got my character pregnant, and soon after the fantasy love child was born he would hire a nanny to take care of the child and i would continue this act of devotion as soon as possible. He would like to watch in some scenarios but would become jealous of the other men he created in this fantasy. The call lasted for almost 3hrs and there were not too many fetishes that were not brought into his scenarios not limited to but including scat (poo play), vampirism (blood play), emetophilia  (vomit) to give you some idea. By the time the call ended i was both exhausted and somewhat unnerved by this callers very clear, concise, sober and i have to admit deep attractive voice. To what became an ambiguous, underground, dark, grotesque fantasy of love, ownership and control. The Human Centipede kind of creepy comes to mind.The other was a caller who would lead me down a path of general questions. Wanted to know my profile, how old, what do you look like etc. We of course have a false profile as we never reveal any true facts of our own identity for obvious security reasons. I would give this man my profile stats and when it would come to my breast size he would then ask me how did i think i ended up with breasts so large? He would then ask if my mum is large breasted, how old she was and if she liked to have them played with. I would try to bring the caller back to me in conversation but he would continue his derogatory fantasy  which i found highly offensive and insulting that involved my mother. Although i’m aware this is a stranger who does not know my mother nor myself and it is just a ageism fantasy this caller had. I found it not only offensive, insulting and just plain creepy but it was incestuous that the fantasy topic was involving my parent. These types of fantasies are not something i indulge a caller in accommodating.

Are you in a relationship?

No, I have been single for 5 years now by personal choice. It has been an invaluable time both personally and spiritually. I highly recommend this personal growth and development time to anyone of any age. I think it is imperative to know who you are as an independent individual and be a strong confident leader of your own destiny. It is easy to fall into the perils of  codependency or lose yourself in a relationship.
I do however look forward to my next relationship being a healthy, respectful, strong and loving union in which we both carry adoration and encourage one another to grow in our positive unique ways. Oh and good regular healthy sexual relations is a must! lol

Do you like men or women or both when considering sexual relations?

I have had sexual relations with both but have only had heterosexual long term relationships. I guess if i was to categorise myself (not something i tend to do) i would fall into the Pansexual category. I am attracted to the person, i’m all about that energy and dynamic connection particularly on a sexual level. 

If relevant, what are you looking for in a relationship?

Open mindedness, versatility, honesty, integrity, independence,  confidence (not to be confused with arrogance), the ability to own their true self without fear or care of judgement by others, to be open and accepting of themselves and others, adventurous and open to trying new things, someone who enjoys empowering and being empowered by their partner, someone who can stand their own and is not easily intimidated by others or their success, most definitely a great quirky twisted sense of humour and a devilish sex drive lol.Someone who loves me for me not what i represent in their mind.
Someone who has no insecurities or hang ups to my chosen career path.
A unicorn perhaps?? lol

What seems to be your biggest issue with men or women when it comes to a relationship?

I would probably have to say long term compatibility. I am a strong minded and independent woman with a personality type to match. I am very liberally open minded, socially adaptable and love freedom of expression. Although i have found partners who initially admire this and see this as confident and attractive to begin with it would seem in times of adversity or pressure within the relationship this has been viewed as a negative and past partners have been threatened or intimidated by my strength in nature and ability to stand on my own. I am naturally attracted to a strong personality and physique type but have yet to find someone who can handle the same trait in a woman when times become difficult or confrontational without this being a blow to their ego or masculinity.Too be fair though i can be quite bloody minded and forthright and also have to learn to be somewhat more humble in those situations.

And Importantly, do you enjoy what you do? and why?

I love what i do! Like any job we all have our days however its a privilege to be the receiver of someones most intimate private thoughts and desires. It is both fascinating and exciting as you are never sure as to what that next call may be both good and bad. The fact i make someone comfortable and at ease enough to choose to open up and share their most intimate secluded side of themselves regardless of their orientation or kinks without judgement or shame is a very powerful and rewarding service i provide. I enjoy giving someone the outlet of  sexual liberation and a platform to speak and express themselves from the depths of within without fear of persecution or rejection.This industry is so cliched in the sense the general societal consensus of the type of people who call these lines. It is perceived that only the deviant and perverted use these services for a cheap thrill. This could not be further from the truth! First of all it doesn’t come cheap lol, clients pay a respectable sum to use these services.My clients come from all walks of life, a range of ages, genders professions, nationalities, denomination and sexual orientations. The one thing these people all have in common is relativity. They want to be able to share and relate who they really are on a sexual level. To be validated and not vindicated, to have the pleasure of indulging without fear of reprisal or damaging relations around them through misunderstanding. I am just a vehicle for those expressions and a safe place to explore. I provide a service in which there is still plenty of demand for.Regardless of free accessible porn via the internet, porn does not provide a personalised response to its audience or intimate exchange. This is my reward and the fact i love exploring what makes people tick and learning about human sexual desires and behaviours makes this particular vocation both exciting and educational to me personally. 

If you could ask me, The Sex Psychic anything, what would it be? (psychic question about yourself)

Do you see me having successful longevity in this chosen career path?
Your extension of your initial career choice at time of interview, will indeed bring you much financial reward and success, so do continue on that path and have faith!!! Even when it scares you or you aren’t sure you are cut out for this, do know that it is your thing… could be a year or 2 tops and you will have found success by then.*The Sex Psychic*

Will I be having loving, satisfying, regular healthy sex into my old age with a life partner?You will definitely have some life long partners, but I say some life long partners, because I see you having multiple in your life time… there will definitely be a longer termer coming in, up to a year or 2 if you keep missing the opportunities that present themselves, but after your found success in career choice, you will find someone who has equal financial success who will love what you are doing –  I see you with this man for a very long time. He will of course use your career choice to his advantage sexually lol but don’t see you minding that in the slightest. Later there will be someone else, but that will only be because that current love choice will have moved on. You will be ok with that later on so don’t go stressing.*The Sex Psychic*If you would like to be interviewed by THE SEX PSYCHIC, please email: thesexpsychic@thesexpsychic.com.auThank you
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